3 tips on how to put up a fake personality

3 tips on how to put up a fake personality

Are you tired of being a kill-joy type of peson? Forever alone guy? Stressed type, no fun at all type of guy? Or everyday bullied guy? Well, you can escape all of these by putting up a fake personality. It is like making a box for every group(i.e. a box for your friends, for your family and for acquantances). Just follow these tips and they will accept you in no time without changing your personality as a whole.

1. Start to gain friends gradually and study them.

What are their likes and dont’s? They may be freaked out by your presence at start but then they will realize that you are more like them by flashing a personality that mimics theirs. Hang out with them and be good to them by offering something you do best or something you have. For instance math tutorials, car, emotional support etc., this way they can tell that you are really genuine even though you are just faking it.

2. With friends personality vs with family personality

As a young one, family will always be powerful against friends. Your father can ground you but your friends cannot ground your parents. If you will choose friends over family, it is considered rebellion in the eyes of your family. So here’s a tip on how to keep your friends while still being a good hypocrite to your family.

a. What are the wants of your family? Just follow what are they trying to say and do not ask. Anyway, you do not need a reason if your going to be a hypocrite to them. If they want you to go to church, then go and do a little clapping, singing church songs, etc. Endure 2-3 hours in the church and they will trust you.

b. If your friends and family meet, orient your friends not to do silly things or at least act formal. That way, your family will trust them and will let you go with them. An hour or two of formality will not hurt right?

c. If you wanted something(i.e. go to concert with friends, road tripping, bar hopping) then impress them as early as two months before the ocassion. You can do this by doing simple house chores, doing errands for them, good grades, fake study mode and etc. This way they will think that you are such a fine person and will let you go with your friends. (Note: this only works 70%.)

3. With acquaintances

Consider most of your acquaintances as “USERS”. it may not be true everytime but it is most of the time because some are genuine in making a friendly relationship with you(if this is the case, pls refer to point number 1).

a. If you are in a workplace, do not reveal to them that you are good at something. For instance, you are good in repairing computers and devices, most of the time, they will nag you if there’s a little problem with their computer/cellphones without actually trying or checking it which may consume your precious work time or even your leisure time.

b. Be mysterious as possible without getting into the freak line. Go out with them but do not be as close as possible for some are just looking for vulnerable points in you that they can use so they can ask favors to you especially in work.

c. Do not be the YES guy always for they will be abusing you because they know you can’t turn down a favor.

d. If you are new to a group of people be silent and serious as possible. By doing this, they will not think of bullying you.

Clearly, by putting up a fake personality for each group will solve your problems. It may not be a good coping strategy but still you have the choice. Happy faking, hypocrite!

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